Issue of Trust

How honest are you with your other half? Are you always completely honest or do you keep some parts to yourself to avoid conflict?

i've always thought the best respect someone have for their other half is to be completely honest with each other but apparently i'm wrong again. Couples need to hide facts from each other so they will not argure over trivial matter.

Is this right?

The problem must be with me obviously. Why would i want to know things that will hurt myself right? Or things that could lead to an argument right?

Assuming this IS right, how not-completely honest should a person be? 50-50? 85-15? How do you know the limits? How do you know the boundaries? How do you know you get your ratios right when you not being honest?

Isn't being completely honest an easier thing to do instead? Isn't being completely honest the right thing to do?

Well, i guess not. Let's just keep things to ourselves because they are just trivial matter that may lead to arguments, hence keeping them out of sight means out of mind.

i'm just being stupid. Please ignore this post after you've read it




ChiM