Monophobia?

Are you afraid of being lonely? Do you like the taste of not having people that care about you around you?

Ok, maybe afraid is too heavy a word to describe that feeling of anxiety. How about dislike? Is that a better word?

Rephrasing the question, do you like being lonely? You know that feeling at the end of a rough day when you come home and feel like talking to someone that genuinely care about you but there isn't anyone?

You know that feeling during all the weekends when you finally don't need to go work, when you finally don't need to think about all those issue in the office but you got no one to go enjoy your life with? And the worst thing happened when you realized that going back to work is in fact a better thing to do?

Have you ever been into that kind of a situation where all your friends are dating someone, or are married and with kids, and they are all a group of good people to hang out with during working hour but they miraculously vanished out of thin air once the bell rang at 6 o'clock?

How about when this best friend of yours, be it the opposite sex or not, with whom you always hang out with every single day of your life until suddenly one day this best friend of yours started dating someone and you're like second priority now?

Those are not good feelings i can tell you that. In fact by the way i described it you know how much i dislike it. i'm on the verge of being afraid of being lonely.

But everyone will go through this phase once in a while. When you're there, go out and meet more people. There are a million of being out there feeling just like you the same time you're feeling all those negativity overwhelming you. Just go out and meet more people.

But of course, do it carefully, safely and responsibly. Don't come back losing your life or even having another life inside of you. Sometimes when you're sad, that is the most vulnerable time where you will make a mistake. Just remember life is not always a high point, sometimes you will be at the bottom of the pit as well, but when that time comes, suck in a deep breath, embrace all those negativity, chew them up and spit them out because soon you'll get out of the pit and reach to the sky.

Never give up, have fun in life, but in careful, safe and responsible way.




ChiM