For You Ladies Out There

I've always thought that girls are the superior breed of homosapiens than us guys. I've always thought that guys are just jerks who don't know how to treat their ladies right.

And then i was right and then i was wrong too.

i'll try to make this short, rather sleepy at this hour and tomorrow in a few hours more, i still need to go work. Yea, i do go work for a living, unlike those 'bloggers' who just sit home and writes and still get paid for.

This is a simple reminder to those ladies out there, specially dedicated to you all.

Don't be stupid when:

....your guy cheats on you. Leave him for someone else. If he do it once, he's going to do it again. Try not to give him a second chance to hurt you the second time with the same reason. But remember to delete those naked intimate pictures of yours before throwing in the towel. Guys can be really childish with this kind of stuffs. Remember Paris Hilton?

....he hits you. If he did it once, perhaps you can consider to forgive him, but if he did it constantly, please dump him. If he hits you after drinking, leave at once. There are help groups out there for females who are abused.

....you're the third party, be it him married, or knowing he is in a relationship with someone else. If he already have someone else, and still out there hunting, you can guess what kind of person he is right? I'm sure he'll tell you he's not happy with his current someone, and that you're special, but he can't leave her because he sympathizes her. It's all bullshit. Don't be the reason a relationship is broken. More importantly, don't indulge in those sick fantasies guys have of sleeping with a few people at the same time.

....he takes money from you to gamble, to buy alcohol. If he can't earn his hobby, he isn't much a man. Think of why do you love him in the first place, and if he still live up your expectation. Do not just linger around in the relationship just because you've already gotten used to it.

....you're not too conscious to make a decision. If you can't make a decision now, delay them. Everything can wait. You're not going to miss anything if you don't have it. Sometimes judgments can be blurry when our minds are pressured to make decisions. Just try not to make hasty ones and hurt the people who love you and care about you.

....you know he's just out to play. Why would you indulge guys with their fantasies of sleeping with every girl they can pick up? They won't even remember your name after they are done jumping into your pants!! Like i always say, practice chasity, not charity!



I know it's a modern world out there, and because of this simple reason, a lot of people tend to leave their morale at home. Flip open your newspaper today, and i bet you there will be at least a case of rape-cum-murder happening anywhere in the world. Like always, ladies sure need to protect themselves even more from the dangers they face now, compared to before.







ChiM