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Creation of Problems

You know how people say that women & money are the source to all problems for men. True & Not-True at the same time.

True because that's the 2 things in this whole wide world that men will scratch off all the hair on their scalp over.

Not-True because usually they make it a problem for themselves to worry about.

Well, i'm one of those idiots who think too much, worry too much & in the end, create more problems that were not problem to begin with.

Do you know that curiosity kills the cat? i just noticed really, really recently how "curios" i am on knowing things about other people, especially when they do not want to tell me about it. The more you want to play mysterious with me, the more my guts wants to know.

And this is a problem.

As a guy, i think i should know when to stop digging & start respecting other people's privacy, and do what other "normal" guys would do to other people; "If it doesn't concern me, i don't give a f*ck about it" attitude.

Oh well......

ChiM

Issue of Trust

How honest are you with your other half? Are you always completely honest or do you keep some parts to yourself to avoid conflict?

i've always thought the best respect someone have for their other half is to be completely honest with each other but apparently i'm wrong again. Couples need to hide facts from each other so they will not argure over trivial matter.

Is this right?

The problem must be with me obviously. Why would i want to know things that will hurt myself right? Or things that could lead to an argument right?

Assuming this IS right, how not-completely honest should a person be? 50-50? 85-15? How do you know the limits? How do you know the boundaries? How do you know you get your ratios right when you not being honest?

Isn't being completely honest an easier thing to do instead? Isn't being completely honest the right thing to do?

Well, i guess not. Let's just keep things to ourselves because they are just trivial matter that may lead to arguments, hence keeping them out of sight means out of mind.

i'm just being stupid. Please ignore this post after you've read it

ChiM

The Aftermath

Things hasn't been going too well after the hike. I feel very much weaker, not sure if it's just coincidental or the mountain sucked me dry of all my energy.

Been feeling tired-out ever since the trip, wasn't feeling too well and when i finally did feel better, things got worst off after i went for a blood donation. Almost fainted, but luckily didn't.

Then i was hit with fever all of a sudden after work one night, which lasted until the next day. I even had to take off from work early. i was constantly feeling exhausted, pain all over my body, especially the back of my neck & shoulders.

Am i getting old or something?

ChiM