For You Ladies Out There

I've always thought that girls are the superior breed of homosapiens than us guys. I've always thought that guys are just jerks who don't know how to treat their ladies right.

And then i was right and then i was wrong too.

i'll try to make this short, rather sleepy at this hour and tomorrow in a few hours more, i still need to go work. Yea, i do go work for a living, unlike those 'bloggers' who just sit home and writes and still get paid for.

This is a simple reminder to those ladies out there, specially dedicated to you all.

Don't be stupid when:

....your guy cheats on you. Leave him for someone else. If he do it once, he's going to do it again. Try not to give him a second chance to hurt you the second time with the same reason. But remember to delete those naked intimate pictures of yours before throwing in the towel. Guys can be really childish with this kind of stuffs. Remember Paris Hilton?

....he hits you. If he did it once, perhaps you can consider to forgive him, but if he did it constantly, please dump him. If he hits you after drinking, leave at once. There are help groups out there for females who are abused.

....you're the third party, be it him married, or knowing he is in a relationship with someone else. If he already have someone else, and still out there hunting, you can guess what kind of person he is right? I'm sure he'll tell you he's not happy with his current someone, and that you're special, but he can't leave her because he sympathizes her. It's all bullshit. Don't be the reason a relationship is broken. More importantly, don't indulge in those sick fantasies guys have of sleeping with a few people at the same time.

....he takes money from you to gamble, to buy alcohol. If he can't earn his hobby, he isn't much a man. Think of why do you love him in the first place, and if he still live up your expectation. Do not just linger around in the relationship just because you've already gotten used to it.

....you're not too conscious to make a decision. If you can't make a decision now, delay them. Everything can wait. You're not going to miss anything if you don't have it. Sometimes judgments can be blurry when our minds are pressured to make decisions. Just try not to make hasty ones and hurt the people who love you and care about you.

....you know he's just out to play. Why would you indulge guys with their fantasies of sleeping with every girl they can pick up? They won't even remember your name after they are done jumping into your pants!! Like i always say, practice chasity, not charity!



I know it's a modern world out there, and because of this simple reason, a lot of people tend to leave their morale at home. Flip open your newspaper today, and i bet you there will be at least a case of rape-cum-murder happening anywhere in the world. Like always, ladies sure need to protect themselves even more from the dangers they face now, compared to before.







ChiM

It's been a while~!!

i woke up in the morning, still feeling drowsy from the cough syrup i took last night. i feel the world is spinning below my feet, just right there underneath my toes.

i was suppose to take only 2 teaspoon, but i ended up taking 2 tablespoon instead. Just a slight overdose of cough mixture. That won't kill me. Nothing near that.

I've been having this sore-throat thing since monday morning. i couldn't remember what i ate which makes me like this. i guess it's just time for me to fall sick again. i was hoping i could get sick enough to take a leave from work but apparently i'm not that unfortunate.

i've always had waves of low self-esteem period from time to time. Not everyone knows about it. Not even close friends. Just close friends who really understands me will really notice, which is in fact not many. Lately, i'm having it again. i don't know what is the reason for it. Perhaps my hormone level isn't normal?

Or maybe you'd even guess it when i blog. i only writes when stuffs bother my mind. Don't ask me what happened, it's just one of those days when you're just not standing at the top of the world.

I think i've grown matured a little, not too much but a little. There are massive changes which i can feel within me. i'm trying to stay the same as how i've always been. it's comfortable being how i am all this while. it took me quite some lessons to appreciate me being myself.

I'm not saying i'm not happy lately. In fact, for the past 4 months, it's the best memories i can look back 10 years from now, and smile to myself knowing i did not waste my life being sad or feeling angry or quarreling or even simply not having fun.

It's a whole new experience i'm experiencing now. And it's always a very happy thing if you could find someone you can talk your heart with, who's willing to listen to your whining and nagging, who appreciates you so much for you being yourself.

Tonight is one of those nights when i feel very emotional. Mixture of happy thoughts and regrets sort of overwhelmed me.

Nothing can be done to undo wrongs that had been made. Take it as a life experience and learn from it.

Nothing can be done to un-say hurtful words that had been said. Those words should be replaced with kindness and care instead.

What can be done is what lies ahead when we wake up every morning. No one can ever help us if we ourselves don't wish to help ourselves.

What can be fun to do today, you might regret doing it tomorrow. So why do it?

What you dare not do today, you might regret not doing it yesterday. So why hold back?

We are not saint, we all make mistakes. We know it's wrong sometimes but we still do it. We have lots of reason to do it but in the end if anyone gets hurt, it's wrong.



ChiM